Raven Gatesis telling her side of the story.Gates opened up about the end of her friendship with fellowBacheloralumnaRachel Lindsayduring a live taping ofKaitlyn Bristowe‘sOff the Vinepodcast, admitting she’s just as in the dark as fans about what went wrong.“I’m just as shocked as everybody else and I wish I had answers, but I don’t and I don’t think I ever will,” she said, according toE! News. “I have never done her wrong.”But while Gates might not have the answers, she said she’s come to terms with the falling out.“I guess I just have to put it to rest and it is what it is and I’m not going to say anything bad about her because that’s not in my heart or my spirit,” she said. “But I wish her nothing but the best.”Astrid Stawiarz/Getty; Gabe Ginsberg/GettyGates, 28, and Lindsay, 34, met as contestants onNick Viall‘s season ofThe Bachelorin 2017and went on to star inThe BacheloretteandBachelor in Paradise, respectively.During an appearance onWatch What Happens Live with Andy Cohenlast month, a caller asked Lindsay why she fell out with Gates.“I can’t say. I promised I wouldn’t say,” Lindsay responded cryptically. “But it was enough for me tonot want to be friends with her anymore.”“And you’re still not friends with her?” hostAndy Cohenasked.“No, not at all. And I never will be,” the newlywed replied.During season 21 ofThe Bachelor,the two women became close pals. Gates even shared acelebratory Instagram messagefor Lindsay after she was announced as the star ofThe Bachelorette‘s season 13.“My day one, my soul friend, my person!!” she captioned a February 2017 snap of the two, congratulating Lindsay formaking history as the first black Bachelorette. “To list all of her attributes and qualities that I love would be too long to type. America will soon find out that She IS laughter. She IS friendship. And she IS LOVE.”At the end of her season ofThe Bachelorette, Lindsay accepted a proposal fromBryan Abasolo. Theytied the knot in Augustin Mexico, almost exactly two yearsafter their engagement.Bachelorfranchise starsKristina Schulman,Astrid LochandBibiana Julianwere all in attendance, but Gates was conspicuously absent.Meanwhile, Gates found love withAdam Gottschalkon season 4 ofBachelor in Paradisein 2017. The couplegot engagedin June.
Raven Gatesis telling her side of the story.
Gates opened up about the end of her friendship with fellowBacheloralumnaRachel Lindsayduring a live taping ofKaitlyn Bristowe‘sOff the Vinepodcast, admitting she’s just as in the dark as fans about what went wrong.
“I’m just as shocked as everybody else and I wish I had answers, but I don’t and I don’t think I ever will,” she said, according toE! News. “I have never done her wrong.”
But while Gates might not have the answers, she said she’s come to terms with the falling out.
“I guess I just have to put it to rest and it is what it is and I’m not going to say anything bad about her because that’s not in my heart or my spirit,” she said. “But I wish her nothing but the best.”
Astrid Stawiarz/Getty; Gabe Ginsberg/Getty

Gates, 28, and Lindsay, 34, met as contestants onNick Viall‘s season ofThe Bachelorin 2017and went on to star inThe BacheloretteandBachelor in Paradise, respectively.
During an appearance onWatch What Happens Live with Andy Cohenlast month, a caller asked Lindsay why she fell out with Gates.
“I can’t say. I promised I wouldn’t say,” Lindsay responded cryptically. “But it was enough for me tonot want to be friends with her anymore.”
“And you’re still not friends with her?” hostAndy Cohenasked.
“No, not at all. And I never will be,” the newlywed replied.
During season 21 ofThe Bachelor,the two women became close pals. Gates even shared acelebratory Instagram messagefor Lindsay after she was announced as the star ofThe Bachelorette‘s season 13.
“My day one, my soul friend, my person!!” she captioned a February 2017 snap of the two, congratulating Lindsay formaking history as the first black Bachelorette. “To list all of her attributes and qualities that I love would be too long to type. America will soon find out that She IS laughter. She IS friendship. And she IS LOVE.”
At the end of her season ofThe Bachelorette, Lindsay accepted a proposal fromBryan Abasolo. Theytied the knot in Augustin Mexico, almost exactly two yearsafter their engagement.Bachelorfranchise starsKristina Schulman,Astrid LochandBibiana Julianwere all in attendance, but Gates was conspicuously absent.
Meanwhile, Gates found love withAdam Gottschalkon season 4 ofBachelor in Paradisein 2017. The couplegot engagedin June.
source: people.com